3 Social Media Mistakes Churches Make

When Jesus said “go and make disciples of all nations” his followers listened. And, we’ve been in the business of making disciples ever since.

But in recent years social media has changed the playing field. The word “go” and the phrase “all nations” are no longer restricted to physical travel and national borders.

With social media we can now go into all nations and connect with people. Sharing the gospel and building relationships from the comfort of our living room while sipping coffee and sporting a robe and fluffy slippers.

And yes, I’m a huge fan of that. Not necessarily the idea of sitting around in a robe (though I’m not opposed to that!). But using social media to reach the nations for God’s Kingdom is a great idea!

Yet, because social media is such an expansive communication technology, we run the risk of abusing the opportunity (or at the very least misusing it).

I’ve seen it time and time again and I’m going to call out the top social media mistakes:

Mistake #1 – The Bullhorn Approach

In the church, we often use social media like a bullhorn. The digital equivalent of a soap box. We plug-in to various social media platforms and we indiscriminately “tweet-out-loud” to anyone and everyone who will hear. And this has proven to be completely ineffective.

Despite the pervasive myth (in some quarters) that social media is anti-social, it most definitely is not. One youth pastor recently told me that he encourages his youth to stay away from social media. Because it is filled with, “faceless people hiding behind pseudonyms.”

That may have been the case ten or even five years ago. But not any more. Faceless people still hiding behind a pseudonym have been relegated to the corners of the internet and given the title “troll.” Though they can be loud and visible and divisive at times, they are far outnumbered by normal people.

Your aunt and cousin and brother and nephew. These are the people who make up most of the internet. And these people are real, genuine and in it for the relationship. For the conversation.

The irony is, when Christians use social media like a bullhorn we become the troll. We become the anti-social Twitter and Facebook user that agitates everyone else on social media.

Throwing our message “out there” into the digital space without hanging around for the conversation (and maybe even joining conversations that are not our own), makes people want to block us. It’s that simple.

Mistake #2 – No Social Media Strategy

Does it sound crazy to think that because we have so many people in ear-shot of our message we still need a strategy? Why not just throw the message out there to whoever will grab it?

We could ask Jesus the same question. Why did he relegate himself to one geographic area on the map? Why not shout from high-heaven to anyone who would listen? Why did he spend the bulk of his time with just a small crowd of men and women?

Because Jesus had a strategy. And his strategy was simple: create a social network that spreads and eventually covers the earth. (Yes, Jesus created a social network of his own!)

First it was Jesus, then it was Jesus’ disciples and then their disciples and so on. They multiplied and spread and were able to reach and change far more lives together than Jesus could have by trying to connect with everyone himself.

When we use social media we should take Jesus’ example. We should fill our social network with people who are most likely to receive our message. We need to be selective and targeted.

We need a strategy.

Mistake #3 – It’s All About Me

In today’s world people are suspicious of religious bullhorns. People want to be loved, they want to be cared for, they want to be appreciated.

When we use social media like a bullhorn we’re saying that each person doesn’t really matter. We’re treating people more like a number than an individual.

We need to see people online as the individuals they are. Shouting an evangelical message with the “get saved” tagline and hoping someone will hear and get saved is insulting.

We’re not reaching out to random numbers. We’re reaching out to real people.

  • Susan, a mother of three, a nurse, a woman with a painful past but a bright future.
  • Tom, an insecure teen struggling to find his place in the world and still reeling from his parents recent divorce.
  • Jenny, a retired widow who still blames God for the death of her son twenty years earlier.

When Jesus went about sowing seeds and making disciples he did it by calling people by name. To be effective on social media we need to see people as individuals and build relationships with them. Numbers on Twitter or Fans on Facebook mean nothing if people aren’t the most important piece.

So let’s follow Jesus’ example and build a social network that has real impact!

(Article reposted Jan 2016)

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About the author  ⁄ Derek Ouellette

Derek is Your Digital Ministry Coach. He’s a blogger, speaker and coach at http://derekouellette.ca where he helps churches, church leaders and other ministry partners use social media for God’s Kingdom. Derek has taken his nine years worth of experience as the social media marketer for a Christian bookstore, and over six years experience helping ministries use social media for God’s Kingdom, and put that knowledge into ebooks, resources and training courses for church leaders.


  • Reply
    February 4, 2016

    I cannot agree with you more. I am disabled and can’t always get out to go to church and the church that I would like to join is to far away. Your message really hits home for me

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      Derek Author
      February 4, 2016

      Coolio Jean. Thanks for sharing. 🙂

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    January 19, 2016

    Great Blog Derek! Mistake #3 really resonated with me. It reminded me of what scripture teaches about love. Love must be sincere! The culture today will sniff out that church on social media that is making it all about themselves, their own agenda, events, or whatever…We need to be authentic and unselfish any time we post something on social media.

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      Derek Author
      January 19, 2016

      Hey bud, so true. Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment. I appreciate it.

      • Reply
        January 20, 2016

        No problem Derek. It was a good blog.

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